I am so glad after that, you were able to talk to Jody and calm down. It does get overwhelming after awhile of not knowing what is going on, I completely undersatnd your need to send that email as I have been very tempted to send a similiar one myself!!
The great thing is that after all was said and done even thought he has not responded to the email he accepted a date night!! That I personlly think is fantastic, I personally am so scared that if I send an email like that, he won't respond to me and look your H is still talking to you and not running away!!!
I really hope that you get a much better sleep than you did last night. Don't let it get to you so much you did what you had to do for your own hearts content and so far it has been favourable.