Originally Posted By: LonelyD
My friend who I had emailed earlier is with me. he says its hard, cruel and mind wrenching, but you gotta do it. You know she loves you and you know she knows. You just have to let her see it for her self. dorothy. He is right you know. I have to let her get thru Oz all on her own. Let her tackle her demonscause if I don't and she comes back to soon, I am no better off.


Yep! The only part I have a problem with is the continued affair. As long as this is going on there will be no work on the marriage or her problems. My hat is off to you buddy. I'm not sure how long I could go under those circumstances,


Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final