Hey Trixi... wow, do you really think that he wouldnt? Maybe it feels like pressure to him?? Perhaps you should IM him and say, forget it!

I think this was an interesting observation you made.. "I let myself get "tricked" into thinking we are making babysteps, when in reality, we are just babystepping in a circle."

but then you say, you are loathe to give up in case that means you miss the moment he might want to return.. from what Kalni and KerryK and others say.. it seems that the WAS often ONLY comes back once the LBS HAS given up! Maybe giving up would be a 180 for you!?

Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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