She is a shining example of why we should never take our older family members for granted. Their wisdom is often times enormous.
And yes Frank, you are blessed that she cares enough for both of you to speak honestly about these matters, and at the same time is not willing to cast you adrift just because of her granddaughters choices.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."