The next stage, maybe

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Julia...
SOrry I have been away.. I was pretty shocked by your H's latest text, not because of the tone, but... why didnt he discuss this with you!?? Me and my ex have property and mortgages and there is NO WAY I would arrange one of those payment holidays without asking his views or permission first. I wouldnt be mad if he did that to me, just flabbergasted I think !

I guess, your H didnt want the sitch to continue anymore.. with having to pay for 1/2 the house and rent (as he says he is going to be there for 10 months), so I guess an 8 month sabbatical is a sensible option.. but to not talk to you about it beggars belief. Also, to text (so few letters) and not put it in a more explanatory email.. but I thikn he texted becuase he probably realises that any email he sends should be in response to yours, so he is perhaps 'saving' email contact for this reply he is supposedly working on!

Yes, selling is highly improbable isnt it, in this market.. so perhaps renting out is a good idea?

So.. have you still not replied to either text messages then?? And if not.. well done on not replying !! That gives you sttength.

How are you feeling about H now? Now that you know he is moving in with someone? You havent really said much about that?

Al xxx