Today's sermon was about not giving up hope, no matter what your situation. And here I was TRYING to give up.
I actually don't agree with that. I mean I can't imagine God wants us to be married to lying cheaters? I do pray every night for H to have an epiphany and straighten out his life, b/c I do believe with God all things are possible, but I also think that people have free will and H may or may not ever come to Jesus or whatever you want to call it. Same with your wife. I will continue to DB (for me and the kids now really) and pray for H, but when we are divorced, it's over.
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Am I ok with just being friends with her? Do I believe that the marriage is just flat out over? Am I the one screwing up my marriage?
I love questions!!! I think: no, or you shouldn't be at least. No, or you wouldn't be acting like you do. You certainly don't act like you think it's over. And lastly, No, of course not! I agree with kat's and wdid's advice, though, you should probably pick one path or another, but your marriage is being killed by your W.
I think: no, or you shouldn't be at least. No, or you wouldn't be acting like you do. You certainly don't act like you think it's over. And lastly, No, of course not! I agree with kat's and wdid's advice, though, you should probably pick one path or another, but your marriage is being killed by your W.