I really try to do that GG, I really do. It's hard to just smile and nod when H thinks most of this is still my fault and blames me for things. Or he'll say we've discussed a change in days he sees D when we didn't, things like that. It's like he can't remember sh it and he thinks his mental convos have really taken place. I don't cry FOR him anymore though. I mostly cry out of aggrevation or from biting my tongue and taking the mental coaster.
