hey there, so your kids also go to a C? I just found a great C, funny thing is, she is on the same office/group as the one stbx and I used to see, the really good christian C who saw through stbx's lies and stbx didn't go back there again. I sure hope he takes my son to that C, he is the one who's supposed to go, perhaps the C will talk some sense into his clouded brain. Get this, his (most likely her) solution to keep kids behaving and not fighting? to not let kids to their respective rooms together, so when the boys share a room they can't be there together and if they are stbx or gf will monitor them.. YEAH right. And to keep them in the "big room" downstairs where they can play... umm, his townhome is a tiny place, the "big room" will barely contain all the kids. But he thinks it will work out just fine, he corrects his kids she corrects hers, though MIL told me gf constantly tells stbx "tell s10 to not do this/do this", so, so much for her not correcting my kids.

SIGH>>>>>>>>
This is a "short week" at stbx's, I had them yesterday so they only sleep over 2 nights and I get them on wednesday. I get to do quite a bit by myself (work out, volunteer, book club) but it feels like I'm in some sort of a tunnel from mon-tues, and that wednesday night I get out of the tunnel and can live "normally" with my kids, my little sunshines.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.