dealing with infidelity after R

[Babygirl]

Hi gary, wow, I have to agree with puppy, i always do, work on you, BUT verify. with my own life, the best words that have helped me where when Puppy had said to someone, never to let our spouses know all we know while the affair is going on. I carried that, and boo ya. it had a time and place, that resulted in truth.
tell us, for now, not to her!