"But now I have not heard from H for over two weeks. This is the longest we have gone since I started DBing. So is this "working" or not?"
It may be the longest, but it was an "extraordinary" week with Thanksgiving and all. Most "men" need time to process their emotions before they step out of their shell to communicate...the more intense the emotion, the more time I would assume it takes(at least for the former DAM in me).
However, I'm supportive of experimentation. Send a neutral email to see if he'll bite. I'm thinking of sending my WAW one as well. Can't hurt if it's not perceived as pursuing. I don't think LRT advocates going completely dark. As others have said before me, you should go "dim"...don't give up too much about yourself and specifics of your GAL'ing, but keep him guessing and a bit off-balance.
Endorphins are great, aren't they? I like to mix it up with aerobic, weights, and yoga every now and again.
Good for you and your meetup group! I hope you find as much satisfaction meeting new people and creating a network of friends as I have! All the things you miss about your husband are really needs only you can satisfy when you really think about it. Remember, a healthy relationship is one that enhances our already full life and does not "complete" or "consume" any part of us.
Can I just say that you are doing absolutely great 4 months into the process?! Awesome!
- Me = 32 y/o - WAW = 32 y/o - M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs - No kids - Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08
