Thank you for hanging in with me. I know, I really try to stay away from worrying about or predicting the future, because it does no good at all. But this was a middle-of-the-night musing, thought if I could get it out of my head I could move on. And I do a lot of "processing" by writing stuff down and working things out that way.

I do try to live in the moment. Some would say far too much, because I'm perpetually late!! but every now and then, I'd like to begin planning for the future. You know, more than just putting one foot in front of the other. And I am still somewhat overwhelmed--as long as it seems, it has only been 6 months and I'm still adjusting.

Ah, weather--we've had snow showers today. Are you headed to northern or southern Illinois? Because in Indiana, there's a definite dividing line about as far north as Kokomo (~45 miles north of Indy)--north of that line it snows, south of that line it rains. I hope you have decent travelling weather!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012