Hey BG. Just wanted to check in with you. Sounds like H does want to work things out but I also believe you are dead on w OW wanting to plead her case and keep him. If you learn nothing from my situation then learn this. Set clear and unwavering boundaries and let him feel the total weight of his choices if he chooses to violate those boundaries.
I would be much better off and much further along if I had done this in the beginning. Love you and take care.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option