I have received feedback from people saying that she doesn't even know she is lying. the reason is, she believes everything she says. She wasn't happy in our life, that was her excuse, she is chasing butterflies to no end. there is a reason they call this the Dorothy syndrome. No the grass isn't greener and running won't solve her problems. Everyone except her knows all this already. She needs to hit bottom, the very bottom and understadn what she has done and what she needs to do to correct and make amends. I agree with you, I am not sure I will take her back unless I see this. I felt as if I was second fiddle to her for a while and she kept telling me it was all in my head. She had me convinced i was losing it. Surprise Surprise.
Going dark and not being available to her are your best bets. Don't be ignorant, but short and don't dwell on conversations or answers to questions.
