How about staying on the Paxil and cutting out the alcohol? Mixing AD's and alcohol is like parking the car in the yard and running the garden hose then trying to drive the car and complaining that you're stuck. Stay strong ba. I don't have the booze issues, but I hurt for you and all the stupid stuff your H is doing. He had to blow up while watching the game to take control and bring you into his world. In reference to Stosny, what core value's does H feel are violated by opening himself up to you? There is a bunch in that book that I can't get my head around and it has been a slow read, but it is helping me. Praying for you.
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
