Am I doing this wrong? I`ve been told to be a bit unavailable to my H... don`t return calls right away, don`t seem to be hanging around waiting for him to call. Not that I am around that much with all of my gal'ing. But this continues to puzzle me. I`ve observed that having good contact with him encourages him to contact me more... but I don`t want a push-pull dynamic. I also can`t play games... just not built that way.
I wish I felt comfortable posting more details of my sitch... I note that GFI has a fairly detailed thread and I would enjoy the opportunity to share more of my daily or weekly life. However, I`m concerned about my H viewing this and somehow recognizing me. I`ve talked to my therapist about this... perhaps the privacy concerns just reflect my legal training/work, don`t know. Why isn`t there private messaging in this forum? How do users create opportunities to connect without posting generally? I`ve read that some users find each other on FB. How does that work?
