I think establishing ROR w/ the X would be a good thing. I've tried to beat that into my X's head for months. So... I suggest that you make sure she knows the ROR is out there for her, see if you can line it up w/ grandparents, then make the decision later in the week. What's the harm in offering her ROR? You are still in control no matter what. You will have your plans in place.
Steve
that's why I bring this crap here..LOL..I like all the different opionions and the reasons why everyone has for either yea or nea..
keep talking guys..we will see..I've still not decided..
Well, you did offer her ROR, and she called you an a-hole. Am I getting that right? Let your mom watch Caleigh - grandparents have rights, too.
But that's just me
no..not exactly..I did not offer her ROFR..I asked her to switch a day for a day this week.in other words I ask if I brought Caleigh back early could I pick her up early? she then mentioned to me that she "let" me have caleigh last Wednesday over night..so in essence she has given me an extra day. She got dramatic said she was on morphine from her knee surgery and I ask her if she would like to talk about it when she felt better..she then called me an asssshole..
The assshole comment rolled right off my back..LOL..I have been called worse by people on this board..LOL
I would offer her Caleigh back early with no strings attached, forget the swapping of days thing. Just ask if she can take her early. The A-hole thing came about because you told her what you thought. Hmmmm. I would have called you much worse....
The coparenting relationship is what is most important for your daughter right now, nothing more, nothing less. If it was me, I would call Kim and say look, I have something I need to do Saturday night, do you want her back early or should I ask my mom to cover it. That's what you would want her to do right????
By the way, I have a 12 pack says your Tide are gonna get their asssss beat down...... Ian
The coparenting relationship is what is most important for your daughter right now, nothing more, nothing less. If it was me, I would call Kim and say look, I have something I need to do Saturday night, do you want her back early or should I ask my mom to cover it. That's what you would want her to do right???? Ian
For what its worth this is what I would do too and depending on her bitchy answer, I would make my plans accordingly.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Sorry Mike!