Hey Carlos Thanks for your advice.. Actually this is my original thread. I am going to stick with this for less confusion on everyone. You have a good point on Christmas gathering. That's the wrong reason to go, but I do want to spend much time with S possible. I will still go and only bring gifts for S, that's it. If I see W, that's fine. If she is not there, it will be just as good.
I guess it will never be good timing to talk about our S since she is so unstable and in selfish mode. I am thinking to wait for couple attorneys to call me back first before I bring this up to her. At least I will know my rights and responsibilities. Hopefully she can be civil on this matter. I will try to avoid all the R talk trap. I will practice in front of the mirror for this....
NW626
Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3 It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!
