The Soap Suds are out of the tub.

[Babygirl]

oh i know you didnt lol, its just so flippen sick! that song came on the radio the day after he told me, and i blared it and sang every single word lol!

[1hope]

That's funny! I sang it too! He had never heard it before and I know he was a little taken back.

[1hope]

When he called we didn't talk very long, I just asked how his day was. IF he had eaten his tarts yet, he said he doesn't like them cold. He had left them in the jeep overnight so they hadn't come to room temp yet.

.....interesting. He didn't take them in to the OW's house? Perhaps he doesn't want her to know that you are still cooking things for him? Or maybe that he was even with you?

Sunshine, I would bet he isn't being totally honest with that skank. Just my feeling.

[MT35]

I figured he was going to leave them in the jeep, had made that comment when he took them. If I would have known I was going to be taking the football sheet and everything else I would have probably not sent them with him last night and just taken them this morning.

this is terrible of me, and I am laughing, but I will make stuff for H and the guys he works with, but I bet she wouldn't eat anything I made. I wouldn't eat anything she made, or maybe I would to just look like the bigger person. Funny when SD brings stuff home from her mom's family, H and I never ate it. I like to bake but don't want it all in the house for me to eat at this point, so I will send it with H.

My friend Tiff asked me, what does he tell her when he is leaving, I am going to go see my wife. I said he probably says I am going to XXX (Our town's name) like he always used to say he was going to her town's name.

It wouldn't surprise me now, that he isn't telling her everything, lieing by ommission.

[Babygirl]

LOL MT, I bake all the time for the work, she does hate it and wont touch anything i cook, its hilarious.

mt. I am with hope, I doubt that your H or mine are being completely honest. or have been, I still am so proud of you for how you are dealing with this, because, if my h did it, that would be the end of the deal for me.

[MT35]

Funny, it also goes back to that he never eats there either. Yesterday when he came over at 1:30, he started looking in the cabinets and fridge. I said are you hungry he said no, but kept looking. I said have you eaten? H said yeah a sandwich. He also said he went to their local convinient store in OW's town yesterday morning to get Copenhagen and the made on date for it was July 22, it was pretty dry! So he might have gotten a sandwich from there too.
H didn't eat there on Thursday, he had eaten so much at lunch he didn't need to eat again. Ate with me on Friday, and Saturday, and then had chips and salsa on Sunday afternoon, and tarts before he left.
It is all just too weird sometimes.

[MT35]

Thanks BG- I don't know how well I am handling it, I guess God doesn't give us anything we can't handle. I can guarantee that right now there are only one set of footprints in the sand. I know we all feel the same way right now!!

It is just crazy the things he is doing.

Last night it was funny was talking about a girl from H's work who was winning the football pool and had said that she was messing around with a guy there at work too. And H says... Yes my H actually says this.
I don't see what (the guy) Tony sees in her, his girlfriend xxx is so much better and nicer, I don't understand why he is fooling around with her. H says other than I think his GF is a coke addict. I said out loud. Well I am not a coke addict. I just looked at my H. I said AND??? I wanted to see if he made the connection. He didn't! It is like- HELLO and you aren't doing the EXACT same thing. I know the fog must be very thick.

[1hope]

Ooooh MT. Don't eat anything that she makes. I get the idea that it might not be safe, lol. Remember, your H wouldn't even eat there? He would come home to your chicken fried steak.

[MT35]

I don't imagine H will bring anything from there home. LMAO!!!!

[1hope]

It is like- HELLO and you aren't doing the EXACT same thing. I know the fog must be very thick.

The fog is VERY thick. They really don't have much of a clue about what they are doing, until they start to come out of it. Sometimes they don't even remember some of the things that they have said or even done.