I really think that I wasn't sleeping a wink while she was in the bed! Last night she slept on the sofa, the guests were gone, but the bed wasnt' made up yet. I think I slept better, but after sleeping all day I was restless!
I think I will try to turn up the kindness, and see how she reacts. That might be a good way to figure out if anything has really changed.
Is a hug a bite sized goal? That's what I'd really like!
Julia, I'll take care of your bedroom, for the small cost of a plane ticket, and a hug! And you would have to introduce me to Lisa!