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Thanks for checking in on me Yoyo and cat.. I'm hanging in there. Things are starting to heat up with the custody battle, though. I am a nervous wreck most days about that...

Also, maybe some bad news on the job front. Things are not looking so good in the near future as far my job goes. A couple of missing paychecks could mean financial ruin for me at this point if I can't sell my house.. I guess all I can do is pray that it does sell.. I hate being a grown-up some days!!

Other than that, just taking it day by day and enjoying the heck out my time with D5 \:\)

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Originally Posted By: lovelyolive
Thanks for checking in on me Yoyo and cat.. I'm hanging in there. Things are starting to heat up with the custody battle, though. I am a nervous wreck most days about that...

Sorry about the bad news and the custody battle. I do think no matter how bad things might get after D it won't be as bad as these legal & custody battles are!!! ((((LO))))) Karen


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Originally Posted By: karen43
..no matter how bad things might get after D it won't be as bad as these legal & custody battles are!!!


AMEN to that!!

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happy thanksgiving Lovely girl :)~ im thinking of you.


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Happy Thanksgiving LO!!! Hope you're having a wonderful Turkey Day! \:\) Karen


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Thanks everyone.. Happy Thanksgiving to ya'll.. I am stuffed to the gills \:\)

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Hi, LO,

I hope your Thanksgiving has been happy and ... fulfilling.


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I canNOT imagine going through a divorce like yours. I could barely swim to the shore after mine, and we had no custody battles. I will be thinking of you, and hope things turn your way and stay there!

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lwb - No matter how you do divorce, it sucks.

I don't know how stbx and I will be able to talk to each other once all of the dirt comes out into the open and all of the mud is slung at one another. I think it really messes up any possibility of peaceful co-parenting. I know that we have to act like the adults when this is all over but I can see D5 being pulled in two directions for the rest of her life. How can you make sure that your child isn't completely messed up when the other parent insists on making poor decisions? He has said that if he loses, he will battle me in court for the next 13 years... Lovely...

One kind of nice thing (in a twisted way) is that the op gets to be sucked into the custody stuff. In a way, that kind of make me happy

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hon, pardon my ignorance, but, in a weak effort to come up with helpful advice, can you describe in a nutshell what the custody fight entails? list his demands and yours.


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