I just don't understand where these women come from who want these kind of men? I just don't get why anyone would choose leftover moldy hamburger when good steak and lobster still exists?

BTW, my suggestion is go out with girl friends and groups of women and men. Never go out with men alone and you can have fun. Don't give out your number and when some guy adores you just say you won't be seriously dating (going out on dates with individual guys until.... such and such time... like a year or two down the road). Only meet eye candy and others in groups. Never go out on individual dates. That's what I did during my D and I still had a lot of fun!!! You can flirt and talk with guys, but it avoids all the pressure of a date (yuck!).

Any super great guy who really likes you is going to decide you are worth waiting for, and will be happy just being your friend for now! \:\)

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.