How do I communicate with WAW who is "checked out"

[dday101798]

Alex,

My W said/says the same exact thing, and unfortunately in the begining of all the I acted out the improper way of doing exactly what I told you not to do, that's why I know to tell people not to do it.

Let her hang and think it out on her own, don't make changes just for her, or for her to see, do it for you and your kids.

As i posted in my thread, my time's up, although when I see her I can see deep down she still has feelings, but just won't acknowledge them.