Signs to say WAW woke up?

[dday101798]

So you know what they say, it's not over til everythings signed right?

Well, one step closer. W and spoke yesterday about everything. She has put her case together and everything should be in motion soon, she says she's taking the boys as 'sole provider', I pay 28% child support, can see them when I want, pay for their insurance and that she is moving away and pulling them from the schools since living elsewhere, won't say where and I neglected to ask what her grounds are.

Albeit, she still doesn't realize, the kids WILL have their say in who they wish to stay with, so....

Had a great weekend, Saturday, my 11 yr old son and I cleaned up the yard in preperation for today's snow. A frined, who just so happens to be female stopped by and ended up helping us and stayed for dinner which my other 10 yr old made. He wasn't so happy about making pasta salad, but when it came down to making burgers on the grill he was in his glory. W freaked when I told her he grilled, I never even let HER use my grill.

So, back to the day by day way of life until this is over with. W still says she wants to just file "our" own papers, versus going through the attorney and cleaning me out, I told her , hey, this is your thing, do what you will. Kind of releaved now, but felt like a ping pong ball last night between knowing what's going on now and getting upset over the possibility of having the kids taken away.

On a positive, my cousin I had Thanksgiving dinner at has her oldest son moving out this week, and we talked of the possibility of me staying there if need be to get on my feet and she's absolutely cool with it.