Distressed and Kerry..I agree with you both and am still weighing my options here..there are pros and cons to both options. I'm trying to make the best of what this is. I can tell you that after my first Divorce anytime I dropped my son to stay with a grandparent or my nephew then that was frowned upon..
I have plenty of time this week to decide..
MY main goal here is to attempt to get a CO-PARENTING relationship established with Kim..a "you scratch my back/I scratch yours" type thing. It's the best thing for Caleigh IMO..Kim has a convuluded way of thinking about things..so it makes it difficult..trying to establish a co-parenting baseline if you will.. we will see