God grant me the patience and the strength...9

[glamgirl]

TOH it seems to me you are trying to push your h into talking having a R with you. You say, you wasted your breath. Yes, that is what we have been trying to say.

You just need to bite your tongue and leave it all alone. Let your h be, let him do what he wants, let him think, just leave him alone rather than wonder what he is doing and say h we need to talk.

What is it that you need to talk about. Nothing really. Since nothing has changed. It won't change until you allow him to go through this crisis on his own.

It seems this is very hard for you, but once you get it I think you will find out that your life is so much easier and peaceful. You will only be worrying about yourself.