but as usual no matter where I go, what I do, who I am with, something is missing...
this sounds like a pity party not GAL'ing....make the best of it instead of bring the festivities down
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He SAYS he's trying to figure out what he wants. Then he goes and drinks and plays etc.
he did and is doing what HE wants to do
your H is behavior is what i saw in the 1st 6 months after the bomb with my H. Hes still stuck in the same spot partly because you wont leave him alone.....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest