If she couldn't have them ready when you were ready, I would have just had her brought the stuff out to your place. And I really don't think you should have invited her for dinner. You are supposed to be backing off. I know you are caught up in the holiday spirit and stuff but really it is time to back off.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory