Hey there PM. How's it going with you? Did you have a good weekend? I'm feeling a little down about my own R at the moment but I'll not hijack your thread with my problems. Check out my thread for the details.

We don't celebrate thanksgiving here so the first holiday hurdle I have to get over is Christmas. I can see where things not being as they should for the holidays must be so hard. I know that when my W told me she was leaving me, the thought of what I was going to do at Christmas without her fightened me. I like what davidswife said about possibly enjoying it more without her H though. No H, no drama is a great way to look at it. I know you also said you have nobody else there though and that must make it tough. It's you we have to concentrate on now though my dear. You need to pick yourself up and start doing things to make you feel better about yourself. The exercise is a great start. Weight loss makes me feel like a new man sometimes. Might I also recomment a spot of retail therapy? One of the best things about weight loss is the ability to look good in clothes you would never have considered before.

We're all here for you. Take care of yourself and keep your chin up.


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.