John, I am sorry you have to see your D suffer. There is no easy way to deal with this. I know. All of us know being here. Love her and be there for her and talk to her. Dont be afraid to ask her how she feels. Make her feel she can talk to you about anything and everything, find a therapist she could go to or at least someone you can go to and ask for advice. I am sorry, I know you are angry at your xW. This sucks.. xxx K
