Tired of the fight and ready to hang it up.

[Little Engine]

Tom--I missed this! I guess you were posting at the same time I was. I have asked myself ever since a friend of mine pointed out to me that all my comments to him were about my family, not my W. I wasn't missing my W, just my family. To making's point, I could probably find reasons why, but maybe the reason's why not would number greater. I was talking to my cohort here in the office tonight about this very thing, how she just treats people so rudely sometimes, and makes really obnoxious comments. That has been a turn-off for a long time. Another friend pointed that out to me a few weeks ago when he and my W had a run-in and she let him have it. He said he knew she was like a teenager at that point, just lives by her emotions. So probably I am missing my family moreso than just missing her. I saw a picture of her a few weeks ago in the paper and she just looked awful and not very attractive even. I thought about that goofy movie "Shallow Hal," where he see people for what they are, and the nurse looked all haggard and that scene came to mind.