I did some soul searching yesterday and tried to list the reasons why I love my W. All I could really come up with was 1. She was the mother of my children. and 2. She's beautiful.
I couldn't think of one other intrinsic value in her that I loved. So I think I've been in love more with the idea of an intact family other than a relationship with her. You understand?
At this moment, I would have to agree that it is tough to come up with more than 2 reasons to love the wife.
Unless you truly think this is who your wife really is, then there are probably many other reasons you would like to keep your relationship with her - she just isn't displaying those qualities currently.
