I have been reading here and there and although I do not post to you often I was here tonight and wanted to stop in and say hello.
I can't imagine how you must be feeling, a whirlwind of emotions I bet!
I think it is good that you laid it all out on the line for him. It's tough when there are no R talks because you just never know what they are thinking and you don't know if they really understand what you are thinking and where you are at in your leg of the journey.
I know in my situation the R talks were not always the best but they did at least bring change, gradually. So while I know that R talks are not really DB appropriate they do spark change in some situations and I see some similiarities in our situations so maybe this will be a blessing, hard to imagine now I am sure.
Know that you have worked hard and fought fairly for your marriage. You cannot change your husband, only yourself. That is the biggest thing I have learned in this whole drama I have gone through. I think you know that too.
I wish you the best! I hope that your words have an impact on your husband and that it will open the lines of communication. You are an amazing woman and you deserve the best in life!
Keep at it. Always remember PMA and GAL regardless of what the WAH is doing, saying, etc. Be good to yourself.
