hc--thanks for the support. I wish my W would understand the pain of D and realize the pain she is causing our kids. I don't care about myself so much, but it hurts me too. Sorry you are here. I can't imagine your pain if you are in a verbally abusive relationship. You have good friends here though. Look to breakaway and her threads for a kindred spirit! Good luck!

M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.