I am so not surprised by anything that you are going through, Bobbiejo. Your husband is continuing the crazy tune and you are dancing to it. He "can't make up his mind", yet, if you make a move to try to get any kind of decision, he gets to say that you "pushed him into it".
I was in the same place. Everything is always going to be "your fault" because it is a trap that your H sets up. Mine did the same thing. It didn't matter what the answer was, it was just "wrong". Nothing will please him. Nothing.
