dbing to friendship or reconciliation?

[MsMelancoly]

Hi NTL, Many of us don't just want to be friends w/our spouse, we want more. I guess, you could say the timing isn't right at the moment. Many of us are waiting for our spouses to figure out what they want. So in the meantime life goes on & you learn to control your own happiness once again. That's the point I'm at.

It's wonderful to hear you are at the friend stage w/ your H. Be content & patient with that. You might want to read the 5 Languages of Love or His Needs Her Needs. Both are very good books.

Stay strong & be very patient.