So, Amy, you were the one leading the charge a few months ago against her when I was 'defending' her. Now she's suffering and you're defending her while I'm trying to let her go.
Yeah, I know her life is not a picnic and I still have 'expectations'. I want them to go away and I can only do that by cutting her out of my life more.
I do understand and agree with you when you say "She's out there growing up. Let her. It doesn't mean she doesn't appreciate the kindness you show her. It just means SHE AIN'T DONE. ."
No, she isn't.
I just want to move on, that's all. I'm the custodial parent which means I don't go out. She may not have a 'home' but she has a companion.
I just want to stop caring.
We aren't decorating tonight. We'll do it tomorrow.