I know it is hard, but you are being their stable parent. They will always be able to come to you and tell you all sorts of things(some you will want to hear and some you won't. lol) Being a parent has got to be the hardest job in the world...you want to fix everything and protect them from pain. Sadly they have to experience some of it. Hugs to you and your sweet kids.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory