Thanks for that, it sounds about right. It's just that right now I am swinging pretty strongly toward sadness and pain.
While I agree with you that whatever his feelings are, he has a right to have them and he has not wronged me by having them. It is the way he is handling them that gets me angry. Walking out, not really looking back and moving on like I was some girl he met in a bar and dated casually for a couple of months. No explanation whatsoever.
You are right that he is otherwise conducting himself well - no OW, certainly no insults or game-playing. I have been reading a lot today and telling myself to get a grip and get some perspective.
But, at the heart of it, you are right, I am devastated that he no longer loves me while I still love him so very much.
It does help to know that I am on the right path and that what I am experiencing is normal. Thank you for helping me see that.
