lwb, snow is gone. It did not stick. I have to agree with what you are saying. If my Enlightend H where to drop his OW and move on to a different one, I honestly think I could break my NC with him and even try to be friends. It is the horrible deciet that they both have put me through that makes it so painful.
And Donna, I also believe in Karma. It does not neccessarily work on OUR timetable, but it will come back around. I am trying to just focus on me. After all, if I am still focusing on him, then who is going to look after me? I have faith that things will end badly in these As. ((HUGS))
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008