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Just realized that my D7 and I are getting used to W not being around...even when she is in the house.


Maybe that is b/c you are not as focused 24/7 on her as you were and are forcing yourself to stay busy and get a life, etc. That is why detaching is self preservation.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!