Stella, I saw you post on Dawn's thread and noticed that you were young when you married and have one child as do I. So I thought I'd say hi!
My h is just getting ready to move out to ow's family's house this week after a year and a half on this rollercoaster.
I think you should try really hard to keep your emotions in check around your h (hard I know). But from what I have read (and I read a lot) they need to feel no pressure of any kind.
It seems to me that you leading your life with little unnecessary contact is working. Keep doing what works.
