I dont know which cheeks you guys are talking about but Bbj, if you were to "kick him out" you wouldnt do it to punish him. At least that is not the way I see it, you would do it to HELP him -maybe- realise what matters in life.. Get him out of the destructive mode he is in, both self and towards you...
It's like parents being overprotective with their kids because of their love and actually ruining their chance to become whole, complete persons... xxx K
