The Soap Suds are out of the tub.

[kelaaron]

Know what guys, I really believe you guys are why I didn't find this place sooner. We needed to be here for each other.

Hope, I really am glad he finally told you. Maybe now there can be forward progress.

MT-maybe a little space will be good for you guys. Your H is just so confused. Give him the time and space he needs and see what happens. Just find yourself in the process. And don't worry about your weight. You are beautiful. It isn't like you are 400 lbs or anything. A woman I know has spent 20 years playing that weight waiting game. And I have listened to excuse after excuse as to why she wasn't losing weight, Polycyctic ovarian syndrome, slow metabolism, the latest is diabetes. I have alwasy wanted to say, could it be that you eat an entire large pizza alone in about 10 minutes at least 3 times a week? But I"m not that rude. My point is, stop making excuses and if you want the clingy shirt, go buy it. Wear it. Stop waiting for tomorrow. It is great to have goals, but what about the everyday little pleasures? IMO those are what truly make us happy.