i would not discuss financial issues with him at all. leave it to the lawyers. if he brings up anything else, same thing.
i do not want to see you fall into a trap of sorts.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19