The Soap Suds are out of the tub.

[kelaaron]

Coffee yummy. I have a cold and I'm wiped out. Was rereading a sitch on here and trying to wake up.

MT-it is time to GAL. Just a little one. You, me, Hope, BG, we have all just been sitting on our asses waiting for these men to give us some sort of hope, glance, something. Reread the book if you have to. Now is the chance to really make MT shine and show him exactly what he will be missing.

For me, I'm pretty sure it is a done deal. But amazingly I'm very comfortable with that. But you are where I was years ago, and you really do have a shot to make this work if you can find what he has taken from you. Your selfrespect in this R, your confidence, your desire to put yourself first and know it is not a selfish thing to do. Especially your confidence in the R. Hope I'm sure will back me up on this. When that is gone, you are weak and needy and suspicious. All things that are NOT attractive. And even if you can justify it, it is still not attractive and will damage things in the long run. I don't think you were those things in the past, you seem to have a really good sense of who MT is, at least with this man, but who is MT without him?