You worry too much! Darling trust yourself, you are an aware onto it person. If BF responds badly to a question and you pick up on the vibe that it was a bit personal, you can just laugh and say 'you don't have to answer that'. But in the meantime ask away - you will be able to judge how much he wants to open up. Try pushing the boundaries about the level of conversation - but mostly follow his lead.
Will you be OK if BF has a new fiancee, or has turned gay, or has just found out that he has a 2 year old son?? Of course you will be!
I think we have formulated a response to the above scenario before.. What would you say?
I'm sure you are thinking of something much more suitable, but here's my attempt to get you thinking
"Oh congratulations, that's great to hear you are in a wonderful relationship. I'm really happy that you've met someone special. Me on the other hand, I'm loving my life and being single, there's so many things to do and cool people to meet, I'm so grateful that I'm getting to experience so many fun things etc etc."
Maybe new fiancee would have a beard - or at least very thick unkissiable skin to want to kiss hairy monster AKA as BF!
You are hot and caring and warm and a wonderful person. BF is lucky to have a true friend like you.
