Life in the Rough - No Golf in Snow

[MT35]

Morning Hope-Made me laugh that he asked if you were going to break this gun. Hope you are so much better than that skank! Your H knows it! It is hard but in time, it will get better.

[kelaaron]

Morning Hope. You can do this. You know you can. Adope LE's name for a while. Until you can get back to Hope.

I have to say it made my laugh too. Not quite as much as BG H asking her to go hunting with him but.....

I don't want to pry, hell that is what these boards are for sorta, but all of the talking, did he explain anything? In a way that makes any sense?

I liked your response to the whole ruined day thing. I like that. Just the date. That will make it better in the future. You know that.

I am going to say this and I'm not defending anyone's actions. With the exception of people who go out and pick up hookers or call escort services, I don't believe any of these WAW/MLC/cheaters plan for any of this stuff to happen. I have come to believe that it is not intentional. The A or the resulting actions.

I read something a few months ago that I found to be very interesting. When a woman has sex with a man, her body releases hormones that cause her to be "addicted" to the man for 2 years. If she continues to be in proximity to him during that time, she will continue to want to have sex with him. Additionally, studies have shown that it is possible that a large number (I can't remember the percentage) of the people born in this country are not the biological father of the man who raises them. It has to do with the biological aspects of mating and survival. Something about women see a man with the characteristics she wants in child to make it strong and viable, has A and never tells anyone. It is an innate thing. That was on a documentary on either Discovery or TLC a few years ago. The study was older and actually went back to the 50's and 60's as well.

I am not trying to make light of it. It hurts like hell. But when I remembered that it made me look at this all a little differently. I was telling someone that I don't know if monogamy in a purly physical sense is really realistic. In the end we are biological creatures, part of the animal kingdom. However as humans with INTELLIGENCE, we like to forget that because we can reason. But do you know there are very few animals that mate for life and most of them are birds? We sometimes want to pretend that we don't have the same biological urges as dogs, cats, etc...The black widow spider mates and then kills the male so he will not be around anymore. Wouldn't that be interesting? Again not justifying, just trying to see another side to the whole thing.

Smile honey, you know the pain goes away. You know you are a beautiful, intelligent woman, and you know you will get through this.

[MT35]

OK Kel- When I was reading I was thinking about the spider. LOL. That is some great advice. You two are the best you know that don't you???!!!!

[kelaaron]

Thanks MT. Unfortunately, it is called experience.

And I have way too much time on my hands and just love to learn. I guess I'm what you could call a "professional student". LOL

[1hope]

Thanks MT & Kel.

Yes, he did some explaining. It had to do with everything that I have suspected, his feelings after my illness, MLC and bad feelings about the failure of the family business. She made him feel young, alive and probably sexy. Quite a bit of the things he said and did now make complete sense to me. He and I have always been very close and I am pretty intuitive. Somehow, even though I am hurting so much, I also feel like the air is finally clear between us.

[MT35]

I am glad you are feeling that Hope. You can start again with your H and move on from this now that it is all out.

[1hope]

Hey MT,

MSU is playing Wichita State. They are playing in FLA!

[Babygirl]

hey namesake! finally getting on here, had thanksgiving with my parents today, and didnt get to bed til after 4 am and church at 9 this morning! oh the gun thing not like you did that on purpose, but it did save you from shooting someone, mine aske me yesterday to go pheasant hunting i was like now THATS A GREAT IDEA sheesh.

glad you got some answers sweetie, and i know you want that H back, i feel you. i need t go post my nite and answers i got, ugh, i will trade you!!

hang in there and love you!

oh cool! are they showing the game???? we go watch them alot!

[MT35]

sounds like it is raining a bunch in Florida Kel!

Looks like MSU beat WSU after a rain delay. Seems funny at a basket ball game!!!

A heavy storm resulted in water pouring through the vents and onto the floor at The Milk House at the Disney Wide World of Sports Complex causing a rain delay during the Shockers' final game at The Old Spice Classic.

[Neilh23]

I do feel like my anger is pretty much out now. I am just feeling very sad and hurt. Tired too.

hey hope.....i think that's how you are supposed to feel. it's quite alot of emotional turmoil that we are going through. it's normal to feel worn out. I know i do whenever i vent anger about my W and her OM. Sorry to hear about your H's idiocy (sp?)

and remind me never to piss you off....you actually broke his gun?????? LOL.... ...

love ya girlie......stay strong...