LD- You have my admiration and respect! I also still feel that this can go either way but which ever way it goes you are going to be alright. No.....better than alright! If she doesn't come out of this or comes out of this a person you no longer can have a marriage with, it will definitely be her loss. I'm sure that she cycles in and out and knows this. She is showing a lot of interest in what you are doing. Good sign. She is no longer controlling you and she knows it. The next step is for her to feel and realize what she is throwing away.
Me- 47 W- 45 Married 22 years Together 30 years No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat 2005 - 2007 W in MLT 1/08 - Crisis hits 3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA 4/08 W files for divorce 8/08 Divorce final