It does, and I am thinking very, very hard about it - and what I would require from my wife if we were to do it together. W and I are still undecided.

I would much prefer not to - at least not yet. Sydney during the summer is a wonderful place to be and as far as I am concerned, any work to restore our marriage hasn't even started yet.

Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)