As you know, W is away with D16 until next Sunday. S13, D11 and I are enjoying things so far.
OMW and I continue our communications. OMW has been asked to try and work on things in her M. She is not sure if she wants to. I suggested no contact commitment to her. Will see what happens. If nothing else, Fantasy land is a little gloomy at present.
What will this mean for me and my sitch? Not sure - but not really dwelling on it either. W may indeed proceed with looking at D - I cannot control that. BUT if OM is truly out of the way, at least there is one MAJOR hurdle eliminated.
OMW and I have agreed to keep each other informed of where things are at.
There are differing opinions, but I now firmly believe that exposure to OMW is essential in these situations. For me, may not save my M, BUT at least OMW is no longer being deceived and can decide what is best for her.
I am firmly committed to trying to live with TRUTH, HONESTY and OPENNESS. I won't say this is a total 180, but I have in the past been someone who kept things fairly guarded - not so much anymore...
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
